I need luck or a way to get rid of bad Juju

Quatrefoil [ˈkætrəˌfɔɪl]n

1. (Life Sciences & Allied Applications / Botany) a leaf composed of four leaflets

2. (Fine Arts & Visual Arts / Architecture) Architect a carved ornament having four foils arranged about a common center, esp one used in trace

Did you know Buffolo New York has a Gothic church? Yes, it is true. Here is a medieval style church window. I chose this because I need good luck and quatrefoil designs look a lot like four leave clovers. 

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What a week I have had! I am starting to wonder who I pissed off and what I can do to make amends.
Last Monday my son woke up in the middle of the night with flu symptoms; you know what I mean, no need to get graphic. I kept him home Tuesday hoping it was a 24hr thing as he father planned on visiting us for the first time since we moved here to Nevada. Alex has not seen his father in two years and I have not seen my ex-husband in five.
Thursday morning Alex had not gotten out of bed since Tuesday morning and had a temperature of 103. I practically had to beg the doctor’s office to let me bring him in. They assured me he probably had a viral infection; I was starting to think it was a lot more serious. Turns out it was not just the flu, it was the Swine flu! His fever had broken right after I called the doctor’s office (go figure) but still very weak. I was told he was on the mend but had to stay home from school one more day. With the Swine flu one has to wait 24hrs after having a fever before going out. After getting him home, I started for the phone to tell my ex about Alex’s illness only to have it ring; it was my ex telling me he was on his way. So, now I had a sick child and a visitor coming a day early. Okay, so this turned out okay. The first two days the men hung out and watched movies. We saw Avatar Saturday night and had a better time than I expected.
Sunday we headed out to Reno for a day of window shopping at a new mall on the water. Turns out I had a flat tire! On closer inspection, I had two flat tires! My tires are new, but just my “luck” I seemed to get two lemons. We got them repaired and continued with our day. After coming home Alex and his dad were outside playing with a remote control car Jon bought Alex years ago, back when Alex was a child and liked this sort of stuff. As they were working on the gas powered car Alex got gasoline in his eye. He did not let me know, just tried to wash it out himself. Hours later as we ate dinner I noticed his eye very bright and red. Oh hell, now he has Pink Eye went through my mind. I know it is contagious so I was trying to figure out how to nicely get him away from the table and into his room. All sorts of ideas started to go through my mind: I started counting how many things he had touched during the day and what I would have to clean. I was relieved to learn he did not have Pink Eye, but upset he tried to cover up his accident.  At least I did not have to disinfect the entire house!
Today I logged onto school to start my second week of learning about the South. To my chagrin I learned we are not working on a normal work week schedule.  Because it is a short semester course we are expected to log on at least three times a week for our discussion round table and our week starts on Saturdays! I was not working ahead of time, I am now two days behind! What in the world did I do to have such a bad week?
On the plus side, I am home today so I was able to get somewhat caught up at school and while the guys bonded this weekend, I broke down and bought Joe Hill’s Horns. I have not finished it yet, but will tell you if I had the weekend to myself I would have finished it in two sittings. I will write a review in the next couple of days. For now I am going to try to figure out who to appease and how to do it. I am done with all this bad luck. If any of my dear Readers have recommendations on how to get rid of nasty Juju I will gladly listen.

Grammar Week: Context is important

It is grammar week. I am not sure who decided this but there you are. We should be thinking about grammar and how we us it this week. Did I just mean we should be thinking about how we use it this week only, or did you get that I meant this week we should be thinking about it? Context and how we use or misuse it I the subject of this post. Free Dictionary online defines context as 1. The part of a text or statement that surrounds a particular word or passage and determines its meaning. I should have been careful where I put the word week.
When we do not clearly state our intent or omit important parts of a statement others may misinterpret our meaning. I have found this can lead to embarrassing mistakes or it can make a reader mad at us and misunderstand the point we are trying to make. This month I have had both situations happen because I was not clear. I knew what I was talking about, but readers of my words did not.

My friend Faith of Faith’s Book Blog and I are reading Living Dead in Dallas as a co-read. We also belong to the yahoo group Mostly Books (come join us, we are fun) and have used the group’s board to talk about the book. Last night, after finishing the book I went to the board to leave Faith a message. I was in a hurry and wanted to write a quick subject line. One that would let the other members know this was a post to Faith about the book. I wrote: Faith Dead in Dallas, and thought nothing of it. Oh what I hit I got! Naturally the other’s gave me a bad time and were all rather good natured about it. Faith did let the members know she is alive and well in New Jersey but still I was mortified! What a horrid subject post! What if one of our members saw this post and thought Faith had died. We had a member pass a few months ago and I remember how my stomach lurched when I saw the subject line “we lost a member”. Though members come and go, I knew the subject line was not informing the group about a member who unsubed. See, this is my job as the moderator, so it was a double mistake that I would write Faith Dead in Dallas. I should have taken the time to write Faith: I finished Dead in Dallas. Even though I knew what I was talking about, the context of my sentence was unclear and subject to misinterpretation. Again I apologize to Faith and have learned an important lesson on making sure I write with clear meaning and intent.

Earlier this month I was in a hot and heavy class debate over Jesus and his message. I go to a state college that sits right in the heart of the Southern Bible belt. Many times I have to educate Christians on the history of the church or history of Jerusalem during the time of Jesus. To put it in context, NPR has reported that 30% of American Christians think Judaism came after Christianity; I believe these people live in the school district of the University of North Carolina, where I attend class. A classmate and I were arguing about Jesus’ intent. I wrote “ Jesus was a Rabbi who was taking the Jews to task for being too Roman”. My meaning was clear but apparently my words were taken out of context by another student who happened to be Jewish. Sometimes we write a clear message but because we do not expand on our intent others do not understand our message. My Jewish classmate thought I was arguing that Jesus was trying to make Christians out of the Jews and took me to task for this. She wrote a very long rant chewing me out for my views. I wrote her back and asked her to read my post as if I was a Jew, making a point about Jesus being a Jew not a Christian. She read my post again and apologized for her rant. She misunderstood where I was coming from. Though my statement was clear my point was not. I should have said “Jesus was a Rabbi who was not trying to change the religion; rather he was trying to save it”. This would have made my statement stronger and not subject to misinterpretation.

So you see dear Reader, even though we always know what we mean, care must be taken when writing to others. We do not want our words taken out of context; we must strive to write with clear meaning and intent. Happy Grammar week, may you always be understood.

If you like Grammar I suggest checking out the Podcasts Grammar Girl’sQuick and Dirty Tricks and Karen Reddick, The Red Pen Editor. Both are fun and educational.

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